Blindfold him and give him oral every day until it improves. If he rips off the blindfold and wants no part of the experiment, you’re toast. References :
I know it takes two to make it work. I am in the same situation…I love my wife and would do anything for her. However, she tells me she’s happy without me and doesn’t want the marriage. All I told her is that…I am waiting when she’s ready. You can do everything in the world but if they aren’t on the same page or want the same thing…your just spinning your own wheels. This sounds cheesy but sometimes I like to listen to " I can’t make you love" . It kinda helps sometimes. References :
Hi, first of all, communicate with your spouse about his/her personal mannerisms and habits that may be annoying you that causes your relationship to falter.
Letting the other person know that those actions bother you will call his/her attention. Habits are done unconsciously most of the time and your spouse may not know that you are affected by them. Talk kindly and with an open mind. Be willing to listen, too. By sharing with your spouse those habits and their effect on you, you are opening the door of communication and understanding both ways. It is much easier to accept the habit if you feel you are heard and acknowledged than being ignored.
Next, try to be considerate.
If you don’t like your spouse not cutting his nails on time or stacking dirty dishes on the sink without washing them, maybe he didn’t have time to do it right away. Instead of constantly fussing about it, try to put yourself in his shoes and imagine what he has to go thru his normal day. Maybe is too busy and can’t find the time to do what you wish him to do. If that’s the case, help him out by keeping your mouth shut and doing those tasks yourself. Practicing empathy when you are dealing with your spouse’s annoying habits will soften you and make you more accepting towards them.
Remember, you do have a sense of humor!
If you still need further advise, you can check out this free report, I have downloaded and still reading it. References : http://HelpSaveAMarriage.com
Blindfold him and give him oral every day until it improves. If he rips off the blindfold and wants no part of the experiment, you’re toast.
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You both have to be in it. If he does not want to be married you cannot save it alone. If you are both willing, you can save it.
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It takes two to want to save a marriage. Unless you both want that it is unlikely it can be saved.
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I know it takes two to make it work. I am in the same situation…I love my wife and would do anything for her. However, she tells me she’s happy without me and doesn’t want the marriage. All I told her is that…I am waiting when she’s ready. You can do everything in the world but if they aren’t on the same page or want the same thing…your just spinning your own wheels. This sounds cheesy but sometimes I like to listen to " I can’t make you love" . It kinda helps sometimes.
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If he is not willing then there is not much you can do, hope & pray for a miracle
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Love, do you love each other, marriage is just paperwork. If you stopped loving each other, its over.
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Hi, first of all, communicate with your spouse about his/her personal mannerisms and habits that may be annoying you that causes your relationship to falter.
Letting the other person know that those actions bother you will call his/her attention. Habits are done unconsciously most of the time and your spouse may not know that you are affected by them. Talk kindly and with an open mind. Be willing to listen, too. By sharing with your spouse those habits and their effect on you, you are opening the door of communication and understanding both ways. It is much easier to accept the habit if you feel you are heard and acknowledged than being ignored.
Next, try to be considerate.
If you don’t like your spouse not cutting his nails on time or stacking dirty dishes on the sink without washing them, maybe he didn’t have time to do it right away. Instead of constantly fussing about it, try to put yourself in his shoes and imagine what he has to go thru his normal day. Maybe is too busy and can’t find the time to do what you wish him to do. If that’s the case, help him out by keeping your mouth shut and doing those tasks yourself. Practicing empathy when you are dealing with your spouse’s annoying habits will soften you and make you more accepting towards them.
Remember, you do have a sense of humor!
If you still need further advise, you can check out this free report, I have downloaded and still reading it.
References :
http://HelpSaveAMarriage.com